Comments on: How to let go of unresolved conflict http://conflictzen.lenski.com/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/ conflict resolution for organizations, teams, executives and managers Thu, 02 Sep 2010 14:57:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Letting go of anger, resentment and grudges | Conflict Zen http://conflictzen.lenski.com/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-229 Letting go of anger, resentment and grudges | Conflict Zen Thu, 19 Mar 2009 13:14:47 +0000 http://lenski.com/2007/06/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-229 [...] How to Let Go of Unresolved Conflict, I shared this Bill Clinton story about Nelson [...] [...] How to Let Go of Unresolved Conflict, I shared this Bill Clinton story about Nelson [...]

]]> By: Dr. Tammy Lenski http://conflictzen.lenski.com/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-223 Dr. Tammy Lenski Mon, 09 Jul 2007 12:14:36 +0000 http://lenski.com/2007/06/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-223 Hello, Stuart! I first heard the Mandela story when I was listening to Clinton's autobiography and I remember pulling over my car to sit and ponder its power. It literally stopped me cold...er, warm! Hello, Stuart! I first heard the Mandela story when I was listening to Clinton’s autobiography and I remember pulling over my car to sit and ponder its power. It literally stopped me cold…er, warm!

]]> By: Stuart Baker http://conflictzen.lenski.com/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-228 Stuart Baker Mon, 09 Jul 2007 10:22:09 +0000 http://lenski.com/2007/06/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-228 Tammy, this is a powerful post. The Bill Clinton-Nelson Mandela story is beautiful. Lots of wisdom in a few words- to decide just to let it go. Thanks. Stuart Baker www.consciouscooperation.com Tammy, this is a powerful post. The Bill Clinton-Nelson Mandela story is beautiful. Lots of wisdom in a few words- to decide just to let it go.

Thanks.

Stuart Baker
http://www.consciouscooperation.com

]]> By: Dr. Tammy Lenski http://conflictzen.lenski.com/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-225 Dr. Tammy Lenski Fri, 22 Jun 2007 21:24:12 +0000 http://lenski.com/2007/06/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-225 Rohit, thanks for stopping by for a visit! Your example is such a good one because the only other choice you may have had at that point was to continue to agonize...life is too short! Rohit, thanks for stopping by for a visit! Your example is such a good one because the only other choice you may have had at that point was to continue to agonize…life is too short!

]]> By: Rohit Rohila http://conflictzen.lenski.com/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-224 Rohit Rohila Fri, 22 Jun 2007 21:09:23 +0000 http://lenski.com/2007/06/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-224 Great information Tammy! I had a situation with one of my closest friends. We had known each other and been very close for years. But now the relationship was there more out of the longevity, rather than a current reflection. We had some issues years ago and they were still in the background. I called him up, apologized for my part in it, and he didn't say anything in return. That is when I knew that I had done my part, he wasn't willing to do his, and I could finally let go... Thanks for the article! Great information Tammy! I had a situation with one of my closest friends. We had known each other and been very close for years. But now the relationship was there more out of the longevity, rather than a current reflection. We had some issues years ago and they were still in the background. I called him up, apologized for my part in it, and he didn’t say anything in return. That is when I knew that I had done my part, he wasn’t willing to do his, and I could finally let go… Thanks for the article!

]]> By: Exceptional Dental Practice Management http://conflictzen.lenski.com/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-226 Exceptional Dental Practice Management Fri, 15 Jun 2007 23:35:52 +0000 http://lenski.com/2007/06/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-226 <strong>Regrets...</strong> I've had a few. We all have at some time or another. Who couldn't say that there are many things they'd do differently given a second chance. The dictionary defines regret as a sense of loss, disappointment or dissatisfaction. I... Regrets…

I’ve had a few. We all have at some time or another. Who couldn’t say that there are many things they’d do differently given a second chance. The dictionary defines regret as a sense of loss, disappointment or dissatisfaction. I…

]]> By: Rory http://conflictzen.lenski.com/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-227 Rory Thu, 14 Jun 2007 06:12:37 +0000 http://lenski.com/2007/06/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-227 I know people must have some awful conflicts going on in their lives, things which are very difficult to resolve. That being said, I still find #3 the best solution. It is even easier to attain if I turn the question on myself and ask why it is I'm still holding on to some conflict. Chances are it is because it felt like a blow to my own self-esteem/self-worth in some way. Once I nail that down, letting go becomes a far easier option. I know people must have some awful conflicts going on in their lives, things which are very difficult to resolve. That being said, I still find #3 the best solution. It is even easier to attain if I turn the question on myself and ask why it is I’m still holding on to some conflict. Chances are it is because it felt like a blow to my own self-esteem/self-worth in some way. Once I nail that down, letting go becomes a far easier option.

]]> By: Dr. Tammy Lenski http://conflictzen.lenski.com/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-222 Dr. Tammy Lenski Tue, 12 Jun 2007 12:06:47 +0000 http://lenski.com/2007/06/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-222 Hi there, Dio! Yes, you're right about the complexity and that's the paradox, I think. It feels really difficult to let go on one hand, and on the other we do have the power to marshal our resources and choose to opt out of more misery. So while it's hard, it's also elegantly simple, depending on how we want to play it for ourselves. Hi there, Dio! Yes, you’re right about the complexity and that’s the paradox, I think. It feels really difficult to let go on one hand, and on the other we do have the power to marshal our resources and choose to opt out of more misery. So while it’s hard, it’s also elegantly simple, depending on how we want to play it for ourselves.

]]> By: Diogenes http://conflictzen.lenski.com/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-221 Diogenes Tue, 12 Jun 2007 10:15:30 +0000 http://lenski.com/2007/06/how-to-let-go-of-unresolved-conflict/#comment-221 You make it sound real simple. Only sometime it becomes so difficult to do this. This advice taken. You make it sound real simple. Only sometime it becomes so difficult to do this. This advice taken.

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