I’ve been writing and writing and writing here. Now it’s your turn, so that what I write in the future directly addresses what’s most on your mind. So, would you take 1 minute and answer my survey right now?
[This poll is now closed. Thanks for your input!]
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Hi Tammy,
This poll is a great idea. I’m looking forward to reading your results. I put a link to this post at my blog hoping that it would help to create more input.
Thanks for helping get the word out about the poll, Guy!
A clear visible start point (of the topic) followed by a ‘why’ and ‘how’ to work with it!
I am curious if such a behavior is (also) due to
- missing/ambiguous role/responsibility
- person not feeling empowered to handle it or for the fear of ‘crossing’ the boundary
- person being heavily process oriented
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Hi, Raghav, thanks for stopping in.
Sure, Donna’s behavior potentially had pieces of those components, with the exception of role ambiguity — she knew she was an admin and I was a dean, no ambiguity there nor in what her VP did and did not want her to do.
The strategies I outlined are designed to create movement and resolution regardless of her feelings of empowerment/powerlessness, orientation to work style, role ambiguity, etc.
Tell me more about your curiosity. What would be helpful for me to respond to?
Cheers,
Tammy
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Hi Tammy,
Thanks for responding to the comment.
I was referring to a situation where a person sees a problem but doesn’t take the first step to try to solve the problem. Although this is not relevant in the context of ‘Conflict’ between people – it is applicable to situation of ‘It is not my problem’
Coming to this situation, I have an opinion that peers with different hierarchical lines (functional) may find it difficult to address this.
cheers, Raghav.
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I’m interested in your opinion, Raghav, can you say more? Why do you think they have difficulty addressing this and in what circumstances?
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